Designed in 1872, the property was originally established as a private gambling club.
4.5
Designed in 1872, the property was originally established as a private gambling club.
4.5
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The Basics
SELECT REGISTRY MEMBER SINCE 1976
The Mainstay Inn was originally known as "The Clubhouse," a 19th century pleasure palace, where gentlemen gathered in an elegant setting for gambling and other amusements. Since 1976, visitors have been able to enjoy the same grand spaces, with fourteen foot ceilings, and museum quality antiques. The twelve spacious guest rooms are furnished with splendid antiques, much as they were in the 19th century, but now all have private bathrooms with tub and shower.
In the Know
- Rent a bike and cycle through the area to see the historic sites of the city
- Step on board one of the area’s charter fishing boats for deep sea and Delaware Bay fishing trips
- Take a ghost tour of the area, which combines history and tales of local hauntings
- Hop onboard the Cape May Whale Watcher and take in the dolphins and whales
Stay for the Story
The Mainstay Inn & Cottage is a captivating haven located in the heart of historic Cape May, NJ. This enchanting bed and breakfast boasts a rich history that dates back to the 19th century, offering a glimpse into the town's Victorian heritage.
Sip & Savor
Here are a few things to sip & savor when you visit…
Visit Cape May Winery for wine tasting and tapas
Enjoy the Blue Pig Tavern for classic and farm fresh american fare
The Ebbitt Room is known for its innovative cuisine, attentive service, and refined ambiance
See & Do
Here are a few things to see & do when you visit…
Enjoy a day at Cape May's beach, within walking distance (the inn will provide beach tags and chairs!)
Visit the Cape May Bird Observatory to learn more about birding and the beautiful birds that visit the area
Try Cape May Brewing Co. for a four-sample tasting or guided tour
Guest Reviews
Fantastic Bed and Breakfast! The buildings are nice Victorian style homes, split into Hotel rooms, a very nice combo of Victorian charm, with some modern amenities. My only complaint is that there is minimal reserved parking, so you may need to find a parking spot a few blocks away after unloading. The staff was very friendly and the food was excellent!
- Richie Flavin
Stayed in Cape May for years. This was one of the best experiences I had. We were treated promptly upon arrival. Diane was very nice and hospitable. Our stay was pleasant, breakfast excellent, reasonably priced, excellent location, beautiful grounds, rooms were clean, bed comfortable, and well appointed. I don’t know what else we could have asked for in a Bed and Breskfast. I highly recommend anyone looking to stay...See More
- JimmyC Cee
My stay at The Mainstay Inn in Cape May was nothing short of outstanding. From the moment I arrived, the staff’s customer focus was evident — warm, attentive, and genuinely committed to making every guest feel special. Every detail of my experience was thoughtfully handled with true care and professionalism. The historic building itself is breathtaking, lovingly maintained to preserve its timeless charm while offering every modern comfort. Walking...See More
- Mike L
We recently stayed at The Mainstay in Cape May, and let me tell you, this place was absolutely incredible! We have a tradition of visiting Cape May once a year and staying at a different bed and breakfast each time. The Mainstay was our third stop on this journey, and it’s going to be tough to beat. First off, the breakfasts and afternoon teas were out of this world....See More
- Michelle Thomas
My husband and I stayed at the mainstay inn this weekend. I can’t be more happier with our decision. Food for breakfast delicious and tea time was so good. The staff were so so pleasant! Paula and Victoria were so helpful with anything and everything we wanted. Would definitely come back! Also, so close to all the fun stuff to do in cape may.
- Yev Stok
Rooms & Suites
# of Rooms: 12
Room Amenities: Air Conditioning, Bathrobes, Hair Dryer, Alarm Clocks, Antique Furnishings
For information on ADA accessibility for the facility or its rooms, please contact the property directly.
Policies
Smoking Policy: Outside - Only in designated areas
Family Friendly: Welcomes children over the age of 12
Frequently Asked Questions
Does The Mainstay Inn & Cottage in Cape May, NJ offer free parking for guests?
Yes, complimentary onsite parking is available for guests.
Can The Mainstay Inn & Cottage accommodate dietary restrictions for breakfast?
Yes, special diets are accommodated.
Is breakfast included at The Mainstay Inn & Cottage in Cape May, NJ, and what kind of breakfast is served?
Yes, breakfast is included and served in the dining room or on the veranda, featuring freshly prepared hot dishes.
What room features are offered at The Mainstay Inn & Cottage in Cape May, NJ (fireplaces, soaking tubs, porches)?
Rooms feature air conditioning, antique furnishings, bathrobes, private bathrooms, and some have private decks.
Does The Mainstay Inn & Cottage have a restaurant, bar, or lounge onsite?
No, there is no restaurant onsite, but complimentary beverages, snacks, and afternoon refreshments are provided daily.
What are the best nearby restaurants for lunch or dinner close to The Mainstay Inn & Cottage in Cape May, NJ?
Here are a few favorite local spots near the inn:
• Cape May Winery – Wine tastings paired with small plates and tapas.
• Blue Pig Tavern – Classic and farm-fresh American fare in a charming setting.
• The Ebbitt Room – Known for refined ambiance, attentive service, and innovative cuisine.
Are pets allowed at The Mainstay Inn & Cottage in Cape May, NJ?
No, pets are not permitted at the inn.
Is The Mainstay Inn & Cottage family-friendly, and do you allow children?
Yes, children over the age of 12 are welcome.
How many guest rooms or suites are at The Mainstay Inn & Cottage in Cape May, NJ?
There are 12 guest rooms.
What makes The Mainstay Inn & Cottage unique compared to other places to stay in the Jersey Shore area?
The Mainstay Inn & Cottage is a captivating haven located in the heart of historic Cape May, NJ. This enchanting bed and breakfast boasts a rich history that dates back to the 19th century, offering a glimpse into the town's Victorian heritage.
Is The Mainstay Inn & Cottage in Cape May, NJ accessible for guests with disabilities?
The property has limited accessibility.
Can you host weddings, elopements, or private events at The Mainstay Inn & Cottage in Cape May, NJ?
Yes, the inn hosts weddings, ceremonies, and private receptions in its garden setting.
What are the top attractions near The Mainstay Inn & Cottage in Cape May, NJ?
Guests often ask about nearby attractions. Here are some highlights:
• Cape May Beach – Enjoy the sand and surf just a short walk away; beach tags and chairs are provided.
• Cape May Bird Observatory – Discover the natural beauty of migratory birds and wildlife.
• Cape May Brewing Co. – Sample craft beers and take a guided tour of this local favorite.
Insider Tips
• Rent a bike and explore Cape May’s historic streets.
• Take a ghost tour for local lore and legends.
• Hop aboard the Cape May Whale Watcher for dolphin and whale sightings.
How far is The Mainstay Inn & Cottage in Cape May, NJ from the nearest major city or airport?
The inn is approximately 95 miles (about 2 hours) from Philadelphia International Airport (PHL) and 160 miles (about 3 hours) from New York City.
Food & Wine
Meals Offered: Breakfast
Special Diets Accommodated: Yes
Restaurant on Premises: No
Dining Amenities: Complimentary Afternoon Tea/Refreshments, Complimentary Beverages, Complimentary Early Coffee Tea, Complimentary Snacks, Special Diets Accommodated
Guest Services
Internet Service: Wireless
Front Desk/Security: Business Hours
Corporate Rates: Yes
Inn Amenities: Hot Breakfast, Concierge Services, Free Onsite Parking, Full House Rental Available, Gardens on Property, National Historic Registry, Weddings & Events Available
Weddings & Celebrations
Wedding/Reception/Event Facilities: Outdoor
Events Supported: Private Parties, Ceremonies, Receptions
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