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20 of the Most Romantic Things to Do in New Jersey

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New Jersey boasts beautiful beaches, lush forests, and lively, upbeat cities. Imagine strolling along the boardwalk, hand-in-hand, with the love of your life. Maybe the two of you just grabbed ice cream cones to complete your picture-perfect evening, set before a brilliant sunset. Perhaps you’re on the way to a renowned music venue that even “The Boss” graced with his presence back in the day. You’ll find so many of the most romantic things to do in New Jersey! Whether you’re planning a birthday celebration, Valentine’s Day getaway, or need a few anniversary ideas, consider escaping to a Select Registry property in the Garden State! For further suggestions for your lovely itinerary, access our Romantic Getaway Guide!

20 of the Most Romantic Things to Do in New Jersey

1. Relieve Tension at Diggerland XL

Smashing cars can be therapeutic, right? There’s no better way to relieve the tension in your relationship than by tearing things up at Diggerland XL, a construction-themed adventure park. This adults-only amusement park allows you to operate and drive different heavy machinery with instruction from professionals. This may not be the most conventional romantic activity, but it is sure to get your adrenaline pumping!

2. Explore the Small Town of New Hope

The charming town of New Hope is just over the New Jersey border in Bucks County, PA. Perfect for a romantic day trip, New Hope boasts a small-town feel with big city attractions. Visitors may enjoy eclectic shopping, scenic riverside dining, vibrant nightlife, and plenty of fun events. Named one of “America’s Favorite Towns” by Travel + Leisure, a trip to New Hope is a must when you’re in NJ.

3. Stay at a Select Registry Property in New Hope

The Inn at Bowman’s Hill

Opt for an in-suite massage or soak in an oversized heated whirlpool or hot tub at the Inn at Bowman’s Hill. After exploring the arts and culture scene in New Hope, spend a relaxing evening admiring stunning panoramic views that encompass the property.

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Woolverton Inn

Travelers will find Woolverton Inn perched high above the Delaware River and surrounded by 300 acres of rolling farmland and forest. Located in Stockton, NJ, this property is just minutes away from both Lambertville and New Hope. Revel in the luxurious experience at this 1792 stone manor bed and breakfast.

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4. Visit Lambertville

The City of Lambertville, New Jersey is located on the western edge of Central New Jersey along the Delaware River. Filled with antique stores, art galleries, and cozy coffee shops, this small town is perfect for couples who are interested in art and history. The city was first settled in the 18th century and was a popular stopping point for stagecoaches on the New York to Philadelphia route. Its streets remain lined with well-preserved federal townhouses and Victorian homes to this day.

5. Hike the Longest Trail in the World

Sometimes you just want to enjoy nature and all its wonders. There is no better way to do this than to hike along the Appalachian Trail. The trail stretches an entire 72 miles in New Jersey before creeping into the state of New York. Bring your camera, because along the way you will encounter some of the most breathtaking views of Stokes State Forest, Kittatinny Mountains, and the beautiful Sunrise Mountain. This is the perfect outdoor adventure for capturing a stunning photo of you and your significant other with one of these backdrops behind you.

6. Go Tubing Along the Delaware River

One of the greatest spots in all of New Jersey to go tubing is along the Delaware River. This river runs along the borders of New Jersey and Pennsylvania, and offers calm waters. You might even come across whitewater rapids, if you’re looking for a thrill! Check out the Delaware River Tubing company to view all of the rentals they have to offer for tubing, rafting, canoeing, and kayaking. They even offer a selection of food including hot dogs and hamburgers if you’re hungry!

7. Fulfill Your Need for Speed

The Speed Raceway is the ultimate indoor electric go-kart facility in the area. The custom-built indoor track will leave you wanting more after you race around the first turn. This is a great date idea for you and your significant other to let loose and get competitive with one another.  After you finish racing on the track, head on over to the arcade to play some of the best old-school games.

8. Stroll Along the Seaside Heights Boardwalk

Whether you’ve seen a Jersey Shore boardwalk on an episode of The Sopranos or Jersey Shore, you might enjoy promenading along one yourselves. Take a stroll down the Seaside Heights Boardwalk that is lined with different tourist shops, an arcade, an ice cream parlor, and a small amusement park. To top it off you can admire a sunset while walking down the boardwalk near dusk. It’s the perfect spot to steal a kiss from your significant other!

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Chateau Inn & Suites

Spend your romantic getaway at Chateau Inn & Suites, a stunning historic inn on the Northern stirp of the Jersey Shore. Revel in the sophisticated style and beautiful decor that adorns the walls of this charming property. You can even take the next step and plan your wedding at this gorgeous venue! Exchange vows with the love of your life and host the seaside wedding of your dreams.

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10. Enjoy a Concert at the Stone Pony

The Stone Pony is one of New Jersey’s best-known venues that people come to visit from all over the country. Local stars such as Bruce Springsteen, Southside Johnny, and Steve Van Zandt helped kick-start the success of this music venue. Today, there is a wide variety of concerts that take place here from heavy metal shows to country shindigs. There’s no doubt you’ll be able to find a show to attend here while visiting New Jersey.

11. Go Shopping at the Best Malls

Sometimes all you need is a little retail therapy. Treat yourselves to a shopping spree at some of the best malls in the Mid-Atlantic. If this is something that you want to do during your trip, New Jersey has some of the best places to spend your hard earned cash. A popular place to splurge is at The Mall at Short Hills where you can find every high-end store you could imagine. And the best part? New Jersey doesn’t have a sales tax to pay for clothes or shoes.

12. Discover Cape May

Known as America’s oldest seaside resort, Cape May has a rich history and elegant atmosphere that exudes romance. Each year, millions of couples travel to the Jersey Cape to enjoy its pristine beaches and admire spectacular Victorian homes. Tour lighthouses, take a trolley tour, go whale watching, or spend the afternoon at a winery. The options are endless! If you’re looking for winter date ideas, you’re in luck. Cape May has one of the best Christmas celebrations in the country. This makes it an excellent option for couples in search of a holiday getaway. Cozy up to your significant other and enjoy everything from colorful parades and parties to festive tree lighting ceremonies – all just steps from the sand.

13. Rest Your Head at a Select Registry Property in Cape May

The Mainstay Inn & Cottage

Admire the grand atmosphere that permeates throughout the premises of the Mainstay Inn & Cottage. Enjoy their famous afternoon tea, admire elegant furnishings, and stroll through their immaculate gardens. There’s no better place to spend quality time with the person who means the most to you.  

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The Queen Victoria Bed & Breakfast Inn

Stay one block away from the Atlantic Ocean in the Queen Victoria Bed & Breakfast Inn. Each room has its own unique charm thanks to fine antiques and handmade quilts. This stunning Victorian-inspired property boasts porches, gardens, and a rooftop sundeck studded with fifty rocking chairs for ultimate relaxation.

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14. Delight in a Romantic Horse and Carriage Ride

Live like royalty for the evening! Nothing says romance like visiting Echo Lake Stables where you can go on a horse and carriage ride through the trail. You can even ride at night while gazing at the stars. There’s also an option available to go horseback riding if that is more your speed. This is a perfect date idea to relax and unwind after a long day of exciting activities.

15. Relax and Unwind

If you really just want to spend time with your significant other relaxing and taking a break from your everyday lives, then treat yourselves to a luxurious day spa. Bangz Salon & Wellness Center offers many different spa packages ranging from deep tissue massages to 24 kt. Gold facials. We recommend getting the “Golden Ritual for Two” package as it is an exclusive treatment for couples with Champagne throughout the whole service.

16. Try Your Hand at Winemaking

Try making your very own wine at the Grape Escape. This magical place allows you to personalize your very own bottle of wine by choosing the region, grape type, barrel type, and the amount of aging it will receive. They lead you through each of the important steps in making wine. This is an amusing date idea to enjoy with your significant other!

17. Get Out on the Water

Cruise through the waterways of New Jersey on different sightseeing tours that take you all over the Garden State and even up through New York! Opt for a smooth, scenic tour with SeaStreak ferries. If peacefully cruising through the water isn’t quite your cup of tea, check out Silver Bullet Tours for a thrilling escapade. Board the world’s largest and fastest speedboat custom-designed for a wild, 90-minute tour. Whatever your pace may be, you and your sweetheart are guaranteed the experience of a lifetime. You might even see some dolphins!

18. Sign up for a Photo Shoot

What better way to capture your love for one another than getting professional photos taken? Allow Ephemera Photographics of Long Branch, NJ to bring out your individual personalities as they are captured behind the lens of the camera. These photos will make your romantic trip to New Jersey one that you will remember for a lifetime.

19. Grab a Bite to Eat

Whether you’re in the mood for a romantic candlelit dinner or hungry for “Fat Sandwich,” you and your sweetheart will find that New Jersey is home to amazing dining experiences. If you’re staying out late, you can satisfy your 3 a.m. hunger at a local diner. Share some laughs and a greasy plate of hash browns at Chit Chat, Coach House, or Tick Tock before heading back to your home away from home!

20. Stay at a Select Registry Property in New Jersey

The Wooden Duck Bed & Breakfast

Retreat to Wooden Duck Bed & Breakfast’s secluded estate in Northern New Jersey. Whether you’re looking to hide away all week, surrounded by the rollings hills of Sussex County, or hoping to spend most of your time exploring all the area has to offer, you’re guaranteed the romantic getaway you both deserve when you stay at this spectacular property.

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Stay Select

One of the most romantic things to do in New Jersey is to stay at a Select Registry property. Fuel your relationship with adventurous date ideas and a spur-of-the-moment weekend trip to the Garden State. Get away from the Big Apple and cross off items on your bucket list together. When you stay at a Select Registry bed and breakfast, boutique hotel, or privately owned inn, you’re in for the vacation of a lifetime. What are you waiting for?

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